Student Success Statement

“A man without a goal is like a ship without a rudder.”

-Thomas Carlyle

A rudder is what takes the ship places. If you don’t have a goal then you won’t go places. Just like if a ship has no rudder, it won’t go places. You need to set your goals so that you could know where you want to go in life. 

7 Habits of Highly Successful Teens

Habit 5

5. Seek First to Understand, and then to be Understood because most people don’t listen very well, one of the great frustrations in life is that many don’t feel understood. This habit will ensure your teen learns the most important communication skill there is: active listening.

Why is this habit the key to communication? It’s because the deepest need of the human heart is to be understood. Everyone wants to be respected and valued for who they are- a unique, one-of-a-kind, never-to-be-cloned individual. People won’t expose their soft middles unless they feel genuine love and understanding. Once they feel love, however, they will tell you more than you may want to hear. People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.

Listen with your eyes, heart, and ears. 7 percent of the communication is contained in the words we use. The rest comes from body language (53 percent) and how we say words, or the tone and feeling reflected I our voice (40 percent).

Most people are eager to talk and had rather talk than listen. We have one mouth and two ears. This means we should listen twice as much as we talk. We actually learn more while listening rather than we talk. Learn to listen and listen to learn.  Listen, really listen, for understanding.

Seek first to understand then to be understood- LISTEN.

 

Student Success Statement

“Goodness is the only investment that never fails.”

-Henry David Thoreau

You can always depend on goodness because it will never fail. Goodness will get you good things in life. It will also get you the right things. You will succeed if you depend on goodness.